It’s official. After a summer with Trevor and his fiance, Rachel, in our new California home, we are Tabler Party of Two once again. They pulled out just moments ago after lots of hugs and selfies with us and the dogs. And, of course, prayers for protection as they drive for two long days back to Texas.
It’s a bittersweet day. Bitter because it marks the last time any Tabler children will live under our roof for an extended amount of time. Plus, we’ve had a blast together this summer! Sweet because we are excited for them to enter their last year of college and because we will get back into our empty nester routines.
These moments bring lots of reflection. For instance, how did we ever get to a place where we have a 22 and a 25 year old? I think back with great joy of fun family memories. I think with regret about the many things I wish I’d done differently. I thank God that His grace covers it all.
Trevor and Pumbaa, August of 2004 and 2014. In the blink of an eye.
The Silver Lining: With Trevor’s ridiculously large truck gone, I get to reclaim the driveway! Plus we won’t look like a frat house anymore.
Are you saying goodbye to a college-bound child young adult this fall? If so, I know your heart may be hurting even though you are excited for their new adventure. It’s tempting to spend alot of time worrying… will they make good decisions, will they make friends, will they make good grades, will they fit in… So MANY things to worry about! When I’ve contended with worry throughout the years, I’ve read and re-read and finally memorized Philippians 4:6-7. But recently, I read it in The Message, and it conveys the point more vividly than other versions. Here’s what the first part says:
Now that’s something concrete I can work with! Every single worry that comes to my mind gets turned into a prayer immediately because of my prayers and petitions. Plus I’m reminded that God WANTS to know the concerns of my heart. So comforting.
The rest is also a gem. The verses continue, “Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.” AMEN to that!
I hope these verses will speak to your heart in the coming days. It’s amazing what all God can and will do in our lives if we simply invite Him.
Now, it’s time to celebrate the empty nest season. You do it, too!
xoxo,
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This is a season for you two. A renewing of your relationship with each other and with God. Prayer is an incredible and powerful bond we have with our father. I am here if you have any prayer requests..praying is my favorite pastime.
That is SO sweet! I can always use prayer! Right now my biggest prayer is for the safety of Trevor and Rachel as they drive from CA to TX. Thank you and God bless!
Love the Pumba/Trevor picture!
I know! Can you believe? Ages 12 and 22. It happens so fast! {sigh}
Andrea,I have enjoyed your site ! I was especially touched by your advice to wives … I look forward to reading more about your ideas/projects/advice & Christian growth. While looking around ,I saw you’ve lived in Monroe,LA… I was a Jr/Sr in high school,while my Dad was a Methodist Preacher there in 1979-81. It’s also where I met & married my husband of 33 years! Nice to know that someone else on here can pronounce the name “Ouachita” ! Keep up the good work!
Thanks for your encouragement, Sharon! Did you go to Neville? Small world! Since my grandmother died eight years ago, I haven’t been back to Monroe. Makes me sad. Hopefully I’ll have a reason to return their for a visit soon! Where do you live now?